A lot of women and even men are now of the opinion that marriage is a trap. I on the hand, disagree with this belief. I am of the opinion that marriage can only feel like a trap if you are married to the wrong person. When you are married to the right person, you find out that a lot of things become easier because you are with someone who understands you, knows what you want and truly wants to make things work because they care about you.
One of the reasons why people believe marriage is a trap is because their finances are no longer theirs. They are of the opinion that their money would be slit with someone else and they no longer have a full claim to it. This issue is common to men and has a simple solution. If your finances are the problem, then you should look to marry a woman who has her own finances in line. Someone who is put together and has her own source of income, so she does not completely rely on you.
Another reason is freedom. Some people feel that marriage is going to limit them from doing the things they want to do, such as traveling etc. However, you do not need to close out the idea of marriage because of the fear of being tied down. You can find someone who just like you, wants to also travel and see the world or even someone who just supports your choices and encourages you to do what you want to do.
Others argue that marriage becomes a bore eventually and would most likely lead to divorce. Fortunately, there are ways to keep it spicy and make the relationship feel fresh and last long. This is why it is advisable for partners to try new things to rekindle the flame and be willing to put in the effort to make it work.
Some people argue that marriage traps them by forcing them to commit to one person. I believe people with this mentality are just not ready for marriage. Unfortunately, they are yet to see that a companion is someone who would help you get to your goal in life and vice versa by pushing you to do more with your life. I believe people with this mentality are yet to meet the person who makes them not want to do anything else but commit to them.
Marriage is a serious commitment and is traditionally, an agreement between two people. If for some reason you think you should not get into it. Then don’t. Not until you’re completely convinced you should. It is your decision at the end of the day.